pasand ki shadi karna na tow koi juram hay aur na hi gunah. jee han agar aap kisi ko dil o jaan say chahtay hein aur us ko apna life partner banana chahtay hein tow yah gunah nahi balkah sawab ka kaam hay. kio kah shadi karna hamaray piyaray nabi (PBUH) ki sunnat hay.
lekin masla kahan par khara hota hay jab baat shadi tk pohanchti hay. jab larkay aur larki kay ghar walo pata chalta hay tow aik tofan khara ho jata hay. Hamari society mein love marriage ko qabool nahi kia jata. wajha chahay kuch bhi ho. phir lover larka aur larki bohat mushkil zidagi guzartay hein.
agar lovers shadi kar lein tow khandan walay ghar say nikal detay hein, aur agar shadi na karen tow sari zindagi aik dusray ki judai mein taraptay rahtay hein.
is ka hal Sayyed Ali Qasim Bukhari nay nikala hay. wo kahtay hein kah mein aisa amal parhai kar kay dun ga kah larki kay ghar walay khud hi razi ho jaein gy. aur agar larkay kay ghar walo ka masla hay to un par amal parhu ga wo razi ho jaein gy. tow dair kis baat ki hay neechay diye gy number par rabta karen aur muft mashwara hasil karen.